When You Treat Chores As A Form of Worship..

"What you do in your house is worth as much as if you did it up in heaven for our Lord.." - That's when you treat household chores as a form of worship..

Well, some literally live their lives with excuses upon excuses & without doing anything, while expecting others to do everything for them even when they are bless with good health; to be spoon-fed..

Org2 mcm ni nanti Allah bagi saket betol2 baru tahu.. 😒

It Doesn't Matter To Me Either; What You Give Is What You Get..

Another good news is..

Since we cannot make people like, love, understand, validate, accept or be nice to us & we can't control them either, then they gotta brace themselves if we give them the same kind of treatment as well..

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Words Are Meaningless When Your Actions Prove Nothing..

This.. ❤❤❤..

Actions speak louder than words..

Don't trust their words, trust their actions coz actions will prove why words are meaningless..

But then again, empty vessels always make the most noise..

My Thoughts For Today..

I've made mistakes in life..

I've allowed people to take advantage of me & accepted things way less than I truly deserve..

It usually takes such hurtful experience to change my ways & how I perceive things..

People who don't see any issue in their actions can't be changed.. People whose actions doesn't match their speech.. People who are so very inconsiderate, self-centred & whose lives are fueled by drama 24/7; episodes upon episodes..

These people are the ones who will never change..

They just become more of who they really are; worst than ever..

The ones who have not walk my journey & living the life I'm living won't be able to feel what I felt until they experience it themselves..

I bet they would stumble & fall the moment they start walking & won't be able to complete the whole entire journey just like I did..

Asyura With Her Baba..

I showed my girl this video I took of her & her Baba; talking, holding hands & walking together..

Told her how blessed she was for having a doting father whom she could easily talk, give hugs & kisses to anytime she wants.. A father who is very protective of his only daughter & one who expresses & showers her with so much love.. A father who is always looking forward to head home straight after work just to rest & spend as much time as he can with his family..

I told her to treasure having such a father coz when I was her age, I wasn't treated in such a way.. And that when I was her age, I yearned for such moment with my own dad.. But somehow, I understood & had come to accept that my dad had his own way of showing how much he cares & loves his children.. Nevertheless, I love my Papa still.. And if it weren't for him & all that I had gone thru, I won't be who I am today..

Told her that I'm gonna put this video up in my blog & that one day, she will miss this moment when her father is no longer living in this world.. And I will make sure that every moment we spent as a family be kept in this blog too..

One day, when we passed away, our children could always look up into that blog of mine whenever they miss us.. ❤

Some People Will Never Change..

Some people will never change..

Every time & effort to change these people will usually go barren coz they will never see anything wrong with everything they say & do.. Life evolves ONLY around them; ALWAYS finding ways of seeking attention.. They usually notice the change in your attitude towards them, but they won't even care to notice that its their sickening behaviour that made you change..

Everyone of us has a story to tell, some just never change their ways & still living a life in complete denial..

A leopard will never change its spot & a snake will still bite you, no matter how good you are with it..

Some people will never change..

They just learn how to stage their pathetic drama even better than the previous episodes & assume that others won't be able to see right thru it.. They should go for an audition at MediaCorp.. Oh well.. 😏

What's Wrong With Being Too Nice?

Never take advantage of the person who does the most for you & is always there to ensure your well-being..

When you're being nice & forgiving, people take advantage of it.. And when you start to set some boundaries, people said you're just being plain mean..

Sometimes, I regret being nice, forgiving & for making selfish/self-centred/self-seeking people a priority in my life..

Some people will never ever change..

Memories of Yesteryear..

Bringing back the memories of yesteryear.. Zaman dating.. Zaman "krempeng" 😆 ..

When I was asked by my "boyfriend's parents" to tag along on a trip to the zoo for a little bonding sessh.. When I had my hair cut super short & it freaked my then "boyfriend" out & so I didn't have such a haircut anymore after that 😂.. When the husband had his ala2 boyish "Andy Lau" haircut 😍 (I miss running my fingers on those fringe of his by the way) & we always brought these 3 little boys along with us wherever we went.. Our nephew Khai & my siblings.. Alhamdulillah, till now, these 3 boys never fail to keep in touch with us & one another.. They looked sooooooo cute laaaaaaa!!! ❤❤❤

Cycling To Our Favourite Hangout..

Cycling with my kids to our favourite hangout.. Just becoz my king had to work & I can go berserk if I stay all coop up at home thru out the long weekend.. We're so lucky today, coz we chanced upon quite a number of squirrels up close; all thru out our little trip.. 📽: Little Akil..

Of tree climbing with my kids.. I had to persuade & carry the little one up the tree as he was freakin' out.. Muke member cuak habes.. Step maintain tk takot.. Padehal all the way kepit dgn aku atas pokok.. 😂😂😂.. We played with the fishes by the pond & just admiring Allah's creation.. ❤ 

Some peace, tranquility & the greenery will do just fine to calm my nerves down..

Till I See You Again Nek..

The last time I visited her grave, it wasn't like this.. Now there're wild flowers blooming everywhere around her grave with insects roaming, bees & butterflies flying; hovering above those lovely flowers, searching for nectars..

I wept.. Her grave looks so very beautiful, just like a mini little flower garden.. I decided to snip off the unwanted weeds & let those nice smelling flowers be, so that they may be of benefit to the flora & fauna there..

Somehow, this heart of mine never stops reassuring me that Nenek is well taken care of on the other side & the deeds she did when she was still alive must have please Almighty Allah..

You see, I saw her jenazah smiling when I bathed her for the last time.. I dreamt of her smiling, wearing the most nicest robe & with a "noor" on her face.. She didn't say a word in that dream, she just looked, smiled & hugged me like she usually did.. I witnessed how she prayed 5 times a day even on days when she wasn't feeling very well.. I witnessed how she would always recite Surah Al-Kahfi & Yassin on Thursday nite & other Surahs frm the Al Quran even on any other days.. She would make sure that she completed the entire Juz frm the beginning of Ramadhan till the end & would happily give me a call just to update & encourage me to follow in her footsteps..

Memandangkan aku dijaga oleh Nenek dari bayi, jadi Nenek org pertama yg mengajar aku mengaji, solat & lain2.. She could transform herself frm being the most lovable Nenek who pampers her grandchild to a fierce one who could whoop your ass anytime with a thick long "rotan" as her sidekick whenever she's into her "Guru Ngaji" mode.. Dia kalau mengajar org ngaji tak mintak upah.. Dia mengajar ikhlas.. Aku tk rase zaman skrg ade lagi "Guru Ngaji" mcm ni.. Yg sanggop mengajar dgn ikhlas tanpa meminta bayaran satu sen pon..

"Solat Ly.. Ngaji sebrape bole.. Buat sesuatu hati kene ikhlas kerana Allah.. Sedekah sebrape kite mampu.. Nanti bile kite mati, ni lah yg akan tolong kite," she said while holding on to her Al Quran after praying & reciting a few Surahs with it..

I love you Nek.. Allah knows how much I miss you so very much.. And I hope to be just like you one day.. Till I see you again.. ❤

Quote of the Day.. ;)

The empty vessel makes much noise & the loudest sound..

Confidence & fullness are always quiet.. Insecurities & agitation are always loud..

They who have the least wit are the greatest blabbers..

People with brains the size of peas, have mouths the size of watermelons.. 😝

Cakap tk serupe buat.. Mulot je banyak bunyi.. Org mcm ni diam pon cantek.. 🤐

July 31st, A Date To Remember..

July 31st.. The date I was born & the very same date my father inlaw passed away. We both shared another similarity; being left handed. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atas roh nye, mengampuni segala dosa2 nye, melapangkan & menerangi kubur nya & digolongi bersama mereka yg beriman. Ameen.

To Ma & Pa, thank you for bringing me into this world. For teaching me reality of life; the hard way & that regardless of being the 1st born & the only daughter in the family, I have to always be mentally, physically & emotionally prepared in facing life's challenges. For teaching me to always instil patience, perseverance & not to depend on anyone & to always have trust & reliance on Allah in everything I do.

"Selagi bole sabar, Kakak sabar. Selagi bole buat sendiri, Kakak buat sendiri. Fiker sebelom bercakap & melakukan sesuatu."

Thank you for checking up & being with us frm the beginning till the end of the burial. Till now, you both never fail to check up on us all & ask whether is everything alright at home.

To Papa, mungkin Papa tk pernah tonjolkan kat kakak yg Papa sayangkan kakak. Sebab dari kecik Papa org nye kuat panas baran & very strict terhadap kakak. Mungkin kerana kakak satu2 nye anak pompuan Papa yg paling sulong. Semakin kakak membesar & sudah menjadi istri & ibu kpd 3 org anak, baru kakak faham kenapa Allah tentukan perjalanan hidop kakak dari kecik hingga skrg seperti yg telah ditetapkan. I used to despise you, used to ask myself why am I not treated like a daddy's girl since a child. But as I grew older & saw you shedding your tears when you personally gave my hands in marriage, I realised how much you love me. Papa sayang kakak tak nampak. Whatever you did, its for my own good in yrs to come. You wanted me to be a strong woman. Therefore I thank you & I can never repay every single life experience given to me. If it weren't for it all, I wont be who I am today. I wont be able to live life in such a way where no matter how hard life may take its toll on me, I have to always feel grateful & accept it all with open arms.

I love you Ma & Pa. Hanya Allah sahaja yg dpt membalas segala jasa baik mu & hanya Allah sahaja yg dpt menjaga mu utk ku. Ameen.