Not Everyone Will Like You..

Not everyone's gonna like you nor will they have the heart you have. Neither will they appreciate you & the things you do for them.

You're not for them & they aren't for you. You're not their cup of tea & they aren't yours either.

Never waste your time & heart trying to convince those who doesn't wanna be in your life, for they will never buy what you're selling even if you had to bargain with them. 

It won't be easy but when you've come to accept this, it doesn't seem to affect you anymore even if you have the entire world turning its back on you.

You're not born in this world to please everyone in the first place..

Respect Cannot Be Demanded..

I keep saying this time & again.. I don't care how old you are (related or unrelated), respect cannot be demanded nor can it be given. It has to be earned. 

One has to put themselves with a level of mannerism, trust, honesty & responsibility before others could see a reason to respect them.

You give me respect, I will be glad to return it. This is not self-importance, it's called self-respect. It's a two-way thing; if you want it, you gotta give & earn it.

Don't just keep going around trying to mind other people's life matters when in reality, you're living a life full of shit & flaws yourself.

Dunia & Akhirat..

Harta Dunia..

This.. Lumrah manusia.. Memang ada jenis species macam ni..

Especially species yang jaga orang tua macam nak tak nak, lepas tu bagi macam2 alasan.. Orang tua saket ke, masok hospital ke - setakat "touch n go"..

Kubor orang tua maseh merah, dah tanya mintak share.. Ada orang tua maseh hidop lagi dah tanya pasal harta.

Aku tak hadap ni sume. Yang aku kisah, bab jaga orang tua biar ADIL.

You don't show the keen-ness in taking care of the elders yet you deserve a "fair share" in everything & the respect?

Species macam ni aku tak bole brain..

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Reposted from @bawangchannel Pesan kat adik-beradik kita..

Bila dah besar, dah ada kerja, dah ada pendapatan, dah ada duit, cari harta sendiri..beli rumah, beli tanah, beli aset..

Bagi ada harta dgn nama sendiri..

Jgn direbutnya tanah sekangkang kera dikampung tu nnti.. jgn disebabkan harta tak seberapa itu, kita adik beradik bergaduh, bermasam muka.. bertelagah..

Tak guna...

Kita ni sulung ke, kita ni lelaki ke, nanti bahagian kita lebih dari adik beradik yg lain ke, jgn fikir, jgn berharap.. jgn letak target yg kita nak rumah, kita nak tanah, kita nak kebun atau kita nak harta..

Jangan..

Sebab nanti bila tak dpt, kita mula la nk marah, nk bergaduh dan nak menuntut.. walhal ketika "harta" tu ada, bukan kita yg jaga, bukan kita yg usahakan, bukan kita yg berbakti...tup² bila harta tu dh tiada pemiliknya, kita nak sgt² "hak" kita...

Hak apa yg kita nak?

Hak apa yg kita tuntut?

Kita berhak ke?

Usaha sendiri utk kumpul harta sendiri tanpa perlu meletakkan harta pusaka sebagai matlamat kita, cita² kita...yg lebih utama ialah menjaga ibubapa kita, baik sihat mahupun sakit tanpa perlu mengharapkan apa² dari mereka...

Ini tak, kita buat mereka seperti bola..sekejap pass sana, sekejap pass sini..

Kita sebagai anak yg perlu bagi "sesuatu" kpd org tua kita dan bukannya menunggu dan berebut "sesuatu" hasil penat lelah mereka..

Kalaulah kita berebut menjaga org tua kita sebagaimana kita berebut harta pusaka, mesti untung org tua kita kan.. tapi byk yg jadi bodoh dan hilang akal hanya disebabkan sesuatu yg bernama "harta pusaka"..

Time sakit taknak jaga, time dah tiada datang menuntut pula.. 😥

Always Packing My "Baggage" Light..

I am at a place in life where peace is my priority & discarding certain "life baggages" that will eventually put a heavy burden on my shoulders, are necessary to tend me mentally, emotionally & spiritually. 

Since a child, I keep telling myself to live life of contentment no matter the situation & at 40, I still do. 

Even if I have people around me competing with each other's life achievements or comparing how "perfect" of a marriage/family life they're having, I am & will always be me. I don't see a need to chase or pace myself with all of these temporal gains. 

I just wanna live a simple & happy life that's filled with peace & contentment till the day I die.. أمين 

Forever grateful coz I always learn something in every good & bad situation.

This..

Biar miskin harta, jangan miskin akhlak.

Biar kurang pandai, jangan kurang ajar.

Biar banyak adab, jangan biadap.

One Who Is Contented Is Already Rich..

Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself & in your way of thinking.

Happy Is He Who Finds Fault With Himself Instead of Finding Faults In Others..

The ability to find fault in others is believed, by some people (and their accomplices), to be a sure sign of 'great wisdom', when in most cases, it only indicates the narrowness of their minds & ill nature. And often, these people are colour blind when it comes to fixing the faults in their own lives.

I mean, if they can have such free available time to find so much fault in everyone around them, then, one can only imagine the amount of faults/flaws/mistakes they have in themselves.

Becoz In The End Our Graves Will Always Be of The Same Size..

Something I would love to share here..

4 meaningful yet powerful supplications that will always keep you grounded.

Seeking Allah's refuge from..

1. Knowledge that does not benefit,

2. A heart that is not humbly submissive,

3. A soul that is never satisfied, and

4. A supplication that is not given a response

Seek refuge in Allah from these 4 everyday & I guarantee you will feel the difference from within yourself, InshaAllah. 🌹

I'm Still A Mess..

Say: "Whether ye hide what is in your hearts or reveal it, Allah knows it all: He knows what is in the heavens, and what is on earth. And Allah has power over all things.

قُلْ إِن تُخْفُوا۟ مَا فِى صُدُورِكُمْ أَوْ تُبْدُوهُ يَعْلَمْهُ ٱللَّهُ ۗ وَيَعْلَمُ مَا فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٰتِ وَمَا فِى ٱلْأَرْضِ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَىْءٍ قَدِيرٌ

Qul in tukhfoo ma fee sudoorikum aw tubdoohu yaAAlamhu Allahu wayaAAlamu ma fee alssamawati wama fee alardi waAllahu AAala kulli shayin qadeerun

[Quran 3:29]

Kita dipandang baik kadangkala bukanlah kita benar-benar baik, tapi kerana Allah menutop aib yg ada pada diri kita.

Malu bila orang anggap kita ni baik. Sedangkan kita sendiri tahu bagaimana diri kita sebenarnya.

Barangkali kalau aib kita dibuka & didedahkan, tidak ada satu kebaikan apa pun pada diri kita di mata manusia.

Being disliked & looking like a bad person in the eyes of others is really not a problem for me. What I'm really afraid of is that people think I'm a good person even though I'm still a mess..

Goodnite 🌹

40..

 

40.. [31.07.1981 ~ 2021]

Ya Rabb, You are The Potter,

While I am the clay..

A lowly wandering traveller who realise how brief life in this momentary world is..

My days are numbered but You are for eternity..

I am but a speck of dust falling thru the fingers of time..

My sins are far too many,

Yet You showed me endless love & mercy..

Forever, I can never repay You..

Forever, I can never thank You enough..

And forever, I am in Your Debt..

Alhamdulillah Syukur.. ❤

It's been such a long while since I posted something here. I miss doing this..