Sunday, March 29, 2009

Why The Islamic Society Is Not Seen To Be Beautiful...

Islam is a religion of the Unity of God, of devotion, of noble character and of rules and jurisprudence in all aspects of life, from matters affecting the family to the society, the economy, culture, education, communications, the state, the military and the universe.

If Islam can be understood, internalized and practised in totality, then we will see that those who embrace Islam are people who believe in the Unity of God, will devote themselves to God, will have noble character, will be disciplined, energetic, active and will relate and communicate with one another. This will give rise to people who have the feeling of brotherhood, who are unified, progressive, calm, peaceful, happy and harmonious. But today, we see that Muslims and their societies are in total disarray, tumultuous, chaotic, confused, devoid of noble character and ill disciplined.

The Muslim Ummah are not united, their opinions differ and they do not share the same ideas. Each has its own aims, they are always in disagreement, unorchestrated and they do not move towards the same goal that is the Islamic aspiration. Their directions diverge from one another and are not in rows that are properly lined or like a building that is beautifully and neatly arranged, they are disorganized with one party going upstream, the other going downstream, one party moving towards the river, the other upcountry, one party treading down the valley, the other up the hill, one party venturing to the east and the other to the west. Consequently, they collide and clash among themselves and they end up losers.

The rich waste their time reveling, are proud and arrogant, wasteful and they keep to themselves. The poor are impatient. They mutter and grumble everywhere. They are always tense, edgy and anxious. Those with knowledge think only of themselves. They hoard wealth by their knowledge. They mix with people only at official functions and gatherings. They too mostly keep to themselves. The youths are without direction and live without aim and purpose. They gather among themselves and waste time. They involve themselves with free mixing of the sexes, they loiter around and become a big eyesore. Rulers and those with power are given to intimidation. They shout, they use threats and they instill fear upon the people as though they have lost all ideas as to how to nurture and educate them.

In the family, children prefer to leave the house. They feel uneasy, edgy, tense and nervous being in the house. There is no peace and happiness at home.

Such is the picture of the Islamic society all over the world. It is so confused and messy, it hurts the eyes to watch. If an analogy can be made, it is much like a piece of rag that is discoloured and smeared with spots all over. There are black spots, grey spots, red spots, blue spots, yellow spots and others because it has been subjected to all forms of adverse conditions and situations. It looks so smudgy, it hurts the eyes to watch/it is an eyesore, and it makes one feel utterly disgusted.

Or in another analogy, it is like a valley that is foul smelling, slushy, muddy, and full of rubbish of various colours that is unpleasant to smell and to see. Such is the picture of the Islamic society all over the world.

Why does this happen? Why is the Islamic society in such a bad condition? Why is Islam so beautiful but its followers the exact opposite? Why is that Islam is beautiful and yet the followers are no longer beautiful? This happens because of the following reasons:

1. Some Muslims in the world are left merely with faith. They have ceased to do any acts of devotion. Their way of life does not reflect the Islamic teaching. They live as they like and they do anything they wish. They follow and emulate whomever they want. Sometimes, they too are not sure whether they are Muslims are not. They only hear that they are Muslim descendents and as such they claim to be Muslims. What Islam entails, they do not know. There are still many people who belong to this group.

2. There are groups of Muslims whose religion is restricted only to their faith and to acts of devotion. Even then, their acts of devotion are not strictly in accordance to the true Islamic teaching and are also not consistent. Sometimes they perform it, sometimes they do not. They do the acts of devotion only when they feel like doing it or if they are forced to do so when they are trapped in official functions carried out in the mosque. They cease to do it if they feel otherwise. In all the other aspects of life, they do as they wish as though it has nothing to do with Islam. They think Islam has nothing to do with the question of living. There are still many people who belong to this group.

3. There are Muslims who have faith and who consistently do the acts of devotion, but they could not care less and are not serious in adhering to the Islamic tenets in all other aspects of life with regard to their food and drinks, dress, place of living and place of work. They do not care whether whatever they do is permissible or prohibited. If anything else that they do seem to be in accordance to Islam, it is not deliberate but merely coincidental because they only emphasized belief and acts of devotion. They do not attach any importance to other aspects of Islam. This group is still numerous.

4. There are Muslims whose faith are okay, whose acts of devotion are good because they are very particular about them, who also ensure that their food and drinks, their dress and place of living abide to the teachings of Islam but are lax in all the other aspects of life. They could not care less if conditions in their place of work are not in accordance to Islam such as free mixing of the sexes. They do not abide by the Islamic character and they often defile, revile and insult others. They are full of jealousy and spite, anger, arrogance, self-conceit, greed and miserliness. They often resort to slander, pitting one against another and others. This group too is still numerous.

5. There are Muslims who take care of their faith, whose acts of devotion are not neglected, whose character with other people are good but who are neglectful towards their own wives and children. They do not nurture members of their families whether formally or informally. They are not particular towards their wives and children. There are no discussions, no gatherings, no learning and no meetings amongst members of their families. They tend to scold their wives and children if they commit mistakes, and this is as far as they will go to nurture them. They think scolding is the way to nurture their families when in fact it is punishment, not education. The Islamic environment does not exist within their families. Family relationship is not close, whereas besides beginning from the self, Islam also begins from the family. This group is also numerous and is found everywhere.

6. There are Muslims who truly internalize Islam. They take care of their faith. They are diligent and consistent in their acts of devotion. They are very particular about the permissible and the forbidden in all aspects. They are also very particular about their relationships with God and with fellow humans. If they commit mistakes or miss doing commendable acts of devotion that they consistently do, they are filled with regret. They will compensate them with other good deeds such as the commendable solat or by giving alms or they will help other people, and others. The Islamic shariah is practised amongst their wives and children. They do the congregational solat (jamaah) together. They have programs reading and reciting the Quran. They conduct classes of learning and discussions. Parents become good examples. There is love and cooperation within the families. This group is now very scarce. They are regarded as unusual and strange by society.

7. Those in this group, besides being similar to those in group six, also busy themselves struggling for the Islamic cause by giving lectures, advice, writing and by doing other good deeds within society such as by giving alms, by helping people in difficulty in every possible way and by doing service to society. If they hear that someone is in difficulty, they will surely help and assist. They create awareness in Islam amongst the society through their attitudes so that people will understand such is the way of Islam. This group is truly scarce. They are very difficult to find. They are as scarce as the unhusked grains in the rice or looking for white crows.

Generally or at random, Muslims all over the world can be divided into the above seven groups. This is without going into it closely and in detail. How then can we expect Muslims to love each other? How can we be united? How can we easily agree and share the same opinion? How can we fight and struggle as an organized unit towards the same goal?

If Muslims all over the world are not uniform in their understanding, internalization, practice and struggle, how can Muslims be strong and sovereign? How can this give rise to an ummah with noble character and charisma so much so they are respected and highly regarded by all the other races of the world?

If the lives of Muslims are so much in disorder as we have mentioned earlier, how do we begin to revive it? Do we begin with money? Do we begin with entertainment? Do we begin with politics? Or do we begin with knowledge?

The struggle to revive the Muslim ummah that is topsy-turvy must begin with faith and knowledge. Muslims must be nurtured and fostered with faith and knowledge. It is only through nurturing and fostering can Islam be internalized. Through internalization will develop the love for Allah, Rasulullah and His religion. Internalization will give rise to the fear of Allah Taala. Through this fear, Muslims will be driven to carry out and practise the demands of the religion. Through this practise, will be born a race who has taqwa or the fear of Allah. When taqwa is attained, then help and assistance of Allah Taala will arrive. When Allah grants His help and assistance, only then will we achieve strength, sovereignty and success in the form that Allah Taala accepts.

But to start the process or to develop the methodology towards such a struggle until its ultimate success, requires a figure or a leader who is of faith, knowledge, taqwa (fear of Allah), of noble character who is respected and revered and who is loved and obeyed. If the personality of such a leader is similar or of a lower status than that of the average populace, who can accept him? Who can respect him? Who will love him? Who will obey him?

All of us can answer the question without such a leader, surely the struggle of the Muslim ummah will come to naught. But if only one aspect is to be struggled for, especially the material aspect such as development and progress, then this may be possible. But how do we instill faith, "taqwa" (the fear of Allah), noble character, obedience and love and care.

Does it suffice merely to progress and develop? The Americans and Westerners are developed but what has become of their societies? We all know this and there is no need for me to answer the question. Do Muslims want to aspire to achieve what the Americans and the Westerners have achieved? Let us answer this question ourselves.

Article taken from ikhwan-insight.com

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Paying The Cousin A Little Visit...

So I wasn't working yesterday...

Did the usual household routine chores bla bla bla...

Felt pretty bored at the crib, so I got little Asyura and myself ready for our short trip to Sembawang Shopping Centre... Since the cousin is presently working in one of the Retail Shops there, I was thinking, "
Hey!! Why not pay her a little visit?"

Well, but before that, I had to send little Asil for his Playgroup Class at the Child Care Centre... While he's in the Centre for 3 hours, Ummi and his little sister went to have a little "walk-walk" together... =)

Waiting for a free shuttle bus to S.S.C was a bit of drag... I had to wait for at least half and hour for the arrival of the bus... And little Asyura was getting way too agitated... Da la bus sampai lambat, bus driver pulak pandu bus so "kelemer" (lembab) nak mampos!! Waaaaah!! I was really running out of patience la sei... Macam nak amek a pail of ice cold water and splash it at the bus driver to wake him up with a cold shock... ahahahaha!!

So much for a free shuttle bus... pfft...

We arrived there just in time for the cousin to have her half an hour break... Ape lagi? Adek sedare dengan kakak sedare gi badok la kat BANQUET... Haiii... I must admit, we ARE really good at EATING... hee hee... Asal jumpe je, MAKAN... (Tak pe Lala... You haven't seen anything yet... Wait till I treat you to a sumptuous ALL-YOU-CAN-EAT-BUFFET!! Dudok mengadap rezki selame 3 jam and maaaaakan je... ahahaha!!)

After that, we went back to the shop where the cousin is working at (BATA Shoes)... Hanged around a little bit and did some cam-whoring with the cousin and Asyura... Saw some shoes and bags that had caught the interest of my eyes... Aaaaand, I am definitely gonna get 'em one of these days... Aaaaaand, the hubby is gonna be rolling his eyeballs at me for buying nothing but SHOES and BAGS... Yes? ahahahahaha!!


I bought a few stuffs down at DAISO too... Pretty cheap stuffs going at 2 bucks each... Sape2 yang nak step "budget maintain" tu, bole la "look-see-look-see" kat DAISO ni... Lots of stuffs selling at only SGD$2/-...

Oh!! And to you fellow bloggers and affiliates... If y'all happen to be at S.S.C, be sure to drop by at the Bata Shoe Retail Shop there... That is IF you want to go grab some shoes la and in need of a GOOD CUSTOMER SERVICE, be sure to look for my cousin... lol...

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To Cousin Lala: Eh!! OK, aku da promote kau kat blog aku ni... Sape2 yang nak gi beli kasot kat tempat kau tu, aku suro dorang gi cari kau... OK? As for me, I'll inform you in advance when I'm gonna go there to grab some shoes OK... Oh plus the VANS shoes as well... Woo hoo!! Suke aku!! hee hee... See ya around love!! Mmmmuah!!

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Untuk Yang Bergelar Muslimah...

Insya'allah... Amin...


Tag replies for the SPEAKERS CORNER...

Amsis: Kalau nak tolong kakak babysit pon OK jugak... hee hee... Thanks for the greeting... When is your turn? Bole la ajak kakak makan nasi minyak nanti... hee hee... Apology accepted!! Mmmmmmmuaaaah! And remember not to try freakin me out again mcm itu ari... I totally fall for it you knowwwwwww!! Allah sahaje yang tahu betape panic kakak skejap ari tu... =)

Nadh: Aku pon amek lesen AT... Aku ni jenis senang "kan-cong"... Confirm aku "gabra" kalau drive on-road pakai MANUAL... Yok amek same2 yok... Cian nye... Kau tak dapat gi expo... =( Tak pe, aku da gi dulu... "look-see-look-see"... hee hee...

Saturday, March 21, 2009

A Trip With Mom & Her Siblings...


It was my OFF day yesterday... Mama Yang had called in earlier just to drag us (my mom and me) to the Singapore Expo with her... There's this Halal International Food Convention along with The Great Robinson's Expo Sale... (Woo hoo!! Ni yang Cek suko ni...)


So being the "can't resist type of lady" when it comes to FOOD and great SALE, I called hubby to inform him that I'm gonna spend my day out with my mom and her siblings at the Singapore Expo...

We took a train there with Mama Yang and her daughter (cousin Yaya)... Mama Poi on the other hand, met up with us after work... Wak Wit, my uncle (being the usual "star-karat" he is) came in a little later (as in REALLY LATER) with his girlfriend, Maryani... (Baik ah Wak Wit!! Lain kali buat lagi k... Buat banyak2 pon tak pe... Kitorang saba menanti tapi geram di hati... lol)

[Note: "star-karat" means someone who likes to keep others waiting for him/her whenever there's a meet up]


There wasn't anything much in the Halal International Food Convention... The same old stuffs every year... As expected, food sold were quite expensive... Muslimah clothings and hijabs selling at a price way beyond what you people would think of... Puas hati pegi Johor borong barang2 ni sume... Seriously, the prices for the stuffs there were such a rip-off... Nak step ketok duit orang je whereby you could get the same stuffs outside for way much more cheaper... pfft...

My opinion about the Halal International Food Convention...

NOT WORTH going... Firstly, like I said earlier, the prices there, were such a RIP-OFF...
It's better to eat out in a restaurant than buying expensive little snacks that don't even fill your tummy. Perot aku maseh terase lapar la sei lepas penat berjalan...

And secondly, the place was so crampy... So many booths yet such narrow pathways for people to walk while shopping from booth to booth... Walking in a crampy place and having myself to push the babies around in a double stroller? Seriously, it was way to frustrating for me... Some of the people there, were just so uncivilised. I mean, come on la, please give way to those who brought their babies along in a stroller for God's sake!! I saw many mothers like me who got so frustrated with "kiasu typical pakciks and makciks" who don't even bother to let us have the priority of moving first!! Ape yang dorang nak step klam-kabot sangat pon aku tak tahu... I ended up leaving the place in a piss-off kind of mood...

My next opinion about the The Great Robinson's Expo Sale...

WORTH the "look-see-look-see" plus it's a "shop till you drop" kind of place... Moreover, the place was spacious... I could push the babies in the stroller freely and go anywhere I want without getting myself frustrated... People there just gave way to mothers like me who brought their babies along in a stroller...

There were quite a number of branded stuffs selling at a cut-throat price (wonder why would they still call it a sale) even after the price slash BUT if you're cunning enough and know a skill or two on budget shopping, I tell you, you could even get a blouse at a price as low as $10 bucks!!


So did I bought anything at the Robinson's Sale? Of course la!! Alamak!! Who could resist a SALE especially when you're a lady... Macam tak tahu je... Orang pompuan ni kan suke tempat2 mcm ni... Kalau bukan SALE, then MAKAN... Kalau bukan MAKAN, then SALE... Ni pon rase2 nye aku nak return balek kat tempat SALE tu sebab macam tak puas gitu kan... Tapi tak bole... Mesti nak kena control "nafsu shopping" aku ni... hee hee...

I took quite a lot of pictures thru out the entire trip... Making funny faces for the camera la... Got sabotaged with candid camera shots by Mama Poi and Wak Wit la... Baik ah!! Suke la tu buat "surprise shots"!! Abeh lepas tu kekek kan orang... You guys are gonna get it from me one of these days... Mark my words I tell ya... I'm gonna snap your pictures without you realising it!! mwahahahaha!!


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Tag replies for the SPEAKERS CORNER...

Nadh: Serious!! Aku tak bedek... Cepat2 la gi amek lesen... Nanti bole la aku ikot kau ronde2 satu S'pore bawak babies aku k? hee hee...

Kak Ipah: Alhamdulillah, I'm glad to hear the good news... Insya'allah, hopefully tak de sickness lagi yang nak datang attack... =) You deserve a GOOD REST!!

Asyura: Thanks for the greeting and warm wishes Sis... Insya'allah... Kalau dikurniakan zuriat lagi... Amin... =)

Friday, March 20, 2009

Tata Nano - The Cheapest Car In The World...


The Nano will be launched on 23rd March, 2009. The car will be available in both standard and deluxe versions. Both versions will offer a wide range of body colours, and other accessories so that the car can be customised to an individual's preferences.

Stylish, comfortable...
- Designed with a family in mind, the Nano has a roomy passenger compartment with generous leg space and head room.
- Can comfortably seat four persons. Four doors with high seating position make ingress and egress easy.
- With a length of 3.1 metres, width of 1.5 metres and height of 1.6 metres, with adequate ground clearance, it can effortlessly manoeuvre on busy roads in cities as well as in rural areas.
- Its mono-volume design, with wheels at the corners and the powertrain at the rear, enables it to uniquely combine both space and manoeuvrability, which will set a new benchmark among small cars.

Why Nano?
The name 'Nano' was chosen as it denotes high technology and small size.

Most eagerly waited car ...
People world over were keen to see what Tata Motors' People's Car looked like, and know more about it. The Tata Motors website saw nearly 7.9 million hits on January 10 (the day the Nano was unveiled), while the Tata Nano website saw 4 million hits in 30 hours, making these sites among the busiest in the world. The Nano website (www.tatanano.com) was developed within a short timeframe of 1.5 months and with limited resources.The entire portal has been built on open source technologies, involving minimum investment, following the essence of the Nano - low cost, but high technology.

Fuel-efficient engine...
- The Nano has a rear-wheel drive, all-aluminium, two-cylinder, 623 cc, 33 PS, multi point fuel injection petrol engine. This is the first time that a two-cylinder gasoline engine is being used in a car with single balancer shaft.
- The lean design strategy has helped minimise weight, which helps maximise performance per unit of energy consumed and delivers high fuel efficiency.
- Performance is controlled by a specially designed electronic engine management system.

Meets all safety requirements...
- The Nano's safety performance exceeds current regulatory requirements. With an all sheet-metal body, it has a strong passenger compartment, with safety features such as crumple zones, intrusion-resistant doors, seat belts, strong seats and anchorages, and the rear tailgate glass bonded to the body.
- Tubeless tyres further enhance safety.

Environment-friendly...
- The Nano's tailpipe emission performance exceeds regulatory requirements. In terms of overall pollutants, it has a lower pollution level than two-wheelers being manufactured in India today.
- The high fuel efficiency also ensures that the car has low carbon dioxide emissions, thereby providing the twin benefits of an affordable transportation solution with a low carbon footprint.


A salute to you, people of India!! I must say that I'm pretty impressed after catching a glimpse of India's own manufactured car from the Internet... Very impressive indeed!! SGD$3,070 for a Tata Nano car? It's really really really affordable... I mean not including the COE prices la... So, Tata Nano, anyone? Hmmmmm ammmmmak!!

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Tag replies for the SPEAKERS CORNER...

Deebz:
Yup!! It's funny alright... My aunt was the one who sent it via e-mail... Sape agaknye eh hamba Allah yang ciptakan puisi klaka tu? Wonder who he/she is...

Lalaa:
Ah ah la sei... Aku nak nyanyi kat atas stage sorang pon tak bole... He just clings himself on me, tak nak lepas... Banyak orang nak dokong diye but he was not into it... He just wants ME... hee hee...

Kak Ipah:
Insya'allah... Amin... Thanks Kak Ipah for the greeting... And the same goes to you and Abang Zairi too... Semoge berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat too... Amin... How's the kids? Da baik blom?

Nadh:
Thanks Nadh!! hee hee... Touching eh? I think so too... Coz 12 years!! Imagine that... Lame jugak kan? I hope you find your prince charming... Aku doakan kau, OK? Glad to hear that you're back to your happy-go-lucky self again... =) Take care girl...

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Happy 3rd Wedding Anniversary To Us...

Give Me You...

I don't ask for too many things
Only one thing I really need
That is you baby next to me
With that I'm satisfied

Don't need diamonds
I don't need gold
I just need someone here to hold
To keep me warm when the nights are cold
That would do just fine

You don't have to promise me the stars
Just promise me love, inside your heart
And that's enough
Baby that's enough

Give me you, give me all of you
All my nights spent just holding you
All my days being close to you
Nothing else that I need

Give me you, give me all your love
All your time, all your tender time
All your soul baby that's enough
Nothing else that I need
Give me you
That's enough for me baby

I don't need things that money buys
All I need is there in your eyes
I just need your heart next to mine
All my whole life through

You don't have to bring the moon to me
Just bring me the love
The love that I need
And that's enough

You don't have to promise me the stars
Just promise me that I have your heart
You don't have to bring the world to me
Just give me your word, you will never leave
Coz having you beside me,
I have everything I need
So give me you


12 years ago, Friday, March 14th 1997 at exactly 10.50pm...

I remembered, on this very day we started out as a couple during our high school years...

Both, strangers to each other at first... We started out as friends... Me, trying to be a match-maker for a classmate of mine who was having a major crush on you...

I remembered, how I used to despise you for your long, centre-parting "Mat Sakai" "o-bit" looking hairdo and you had all the girls in high school admiring you just because you were the only guy who goes around riding a scrambler to high school and all the girls dreamed of hitching a ride on your bike... pfft... SO MENTEL!! bleurgh!!

And to top it all off, I hated you and your entire group of school friends coz you guys made me picked up all the disgusting leftover chicken bones on the canteen floor... At that time, I was one of the school councillors and was put incharge of taking care of the canteen's cleanliness... And gosh!! How I hate cleaning up for other people's MESS!!

Then one day, I saw you with this new "Andy Lau" haircut... From that moment on, I have to admit that I was beginning to fall for you.. Admire la kate kan... hee hee... But I kept my feelings to myself and continued trying to fix a date, for both you and my girlfriend to meet... And as usual, you would declined the offer...

Then came one night, on the phone, when you told me that you had feelings for me and my friend was not the type of girl you would want to be with... I was pretty reluctant to go out on a date with you at first but still, after a few chats on the phone, we did went out together... We got to know each other better... And that's when on March 14, 1997... We decided to go as a couple... =)

The thing that touches my heart was, when you, on our 1st day of marriage, told me that you already had feelings for me the moment when I sang Celine Dion's "The Power of Love" on stage during a High School Singing Contest... And while I was singing, you whispered to yourself (while looking at me who was singing on stage), "Yes! I will be your man one day..." These words that you said, I will never forget...

I remembered how I always reminded you umpteen times, not to shower me with gifts and jewellery... And how you would sometimes still surprises me with gifts and love notes (till now)... I remembered how you always told me you're glad I'm not a materialistic kind of girl and that's one of the reasons you had me chosen to be your life partner... And how I'm always flattered by your sweet words... And how we used to go on dates with just 10 bucks in our pockets during our school years...

We had people who dislikes us, and criticises us for what we are... We've been thru so many trials and tribulations together... But never did we ever give up hope on our relationship... Till now, I never regret to have you as my husband... Having 2 adorable little children together... It really is a gift from Allah to have you, Asil and Asyura in my life...

Happy Anniversary Baba... Remember our words, "Thru Good and Bad Times, We'll Always Be Together..."

Love you and our babies... Always...

Ummi...

Monday, March 16, 2009

Our Sunday Trip To 3rd Bro's Crib & Changi Village Hawker Centre...


It was a cold and cozy Sunday afternoon... I might say that I love it when it rains coz it makes the entire surrounding cool and breezy (Thanks Allah, I LOVE YOU... hee hee...)...


So hubby decided to hang out at his 3rd bro's (Yus) crib in Sengkang... Janji nye lepas solat Zohor but we ended up going there at about 6 plus in the evening coz my mom had asked him to repair the faulty "home-gate handle"... pfft... Anyway, thanks a lot Baba for repairing the gate ya... We really appreciate it... Not bad for a first timer, yes? I'm proud of you, really... =)

We arrived in Sengkang at about 7pm... Both Yus and Muz (my 3rd sis in-law) were at home including Abang Acit... Another of hubby's bro... The 2nd eldest in the family... So what did we do? Kitorang dudok, borak2 and lepak tengok TV...

We managed to drag both Yus and Muz out for dinner (kesian kau Muz... tak dapat tengok crite Datin Diaries... tak pe, nanti aku free aku datang buat lagi k... hee hee...) at Changi Village Hawker Centre... Abang Acit had something on, so we didn't invite him to tag along with us... Perhaps maybe next time...

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To Sis Muz and Bro Yuz: Thanks for the hospitality y'all... Pandai korang umpan anak aku makan kacang... Siap dengan "Gamelan" lagi... hee hee... Ijal cakap lain kali kalau diye teringin nak angkat weight, membe nak serbu ruma korang... Aku lak nanti amek kesempatan la kacau program kau eh, sis... hee hee... Ni time kat Bottle Tree lak... Ahahahaha!! Suke aku!!

Sunday, March 15, 2009

14.03.09 - ZS Annual Staff Party '09 cum 20th Anniversary...


I was put incharge of the sponsorship gifts and boy, was my boss delighted, coz I managed to get a huge amount of cash gifts for this year's Annual Staff Party... I really mean HUGE compared to last year's that was done by one of my ex-colleagues...

I brought little Asil along with me to the Staff Party which was held in the company's premises... It was raining cats and dogs... Hubby sent us before making a move to settle some errands on his own...

I was not pleased with the food served for this year's party... It sucks big time... Really... Gosh!! I had employees asking me, "Eh!! This year you incharge of ordering buffet food ah? Wah lao!! Damn horrible lei... Not nice... Bo standard... Last year one you order very nice lei..."

Me, "No la... This year I'm incharge of sponsorship gifts la not food. This year food is incharge by other people not me..."

Them, "Wah lao weh... Really not nice... My grandmother can cook better.. Desserts also not nice..."

Me, "You tell that to boss lor... Tell him that you want me to be incharge of the buffet food next year... And I'll order good food for you all..."

Them, "We will tell him to let you be incharge of FOOD and SPONSORSHIP GIFTS!! OK!! Because you really do a good job on these two things... This year's lucky draw gifts damn syiok man!!"

Me (laughing), "Wah piang!! You all want to sabo me ah? I have enough things to do liao lei... Give me a break can or not?!!"


Everyone had their hands on little Asil and telling me how cute and adorable he is... Took turns to carry little Asil around... I was proud of my little boy coz he was very well behave... =)

Then came the part where I sang... Ahahahaha!! This part is hilarious...

You know, they (the Management Dept) actually dragged me into participating in the singing competition... I had to do a last minute audition la... The last minute choosing of song title la... My goodness... So rushing... And the best part was, on the actual day, I sang the song with little Asil clinging himself onto my right arm... lol... And yet another best most wonderful part was, I didn't leave home empty handed... I won the 1st prize!! Ahahahaha!! Dapat duit la sei...!! Not in "puloh" but in "ratos"... Ahahahaha!! Sape nak kasi duit free ye tak? Tak sia2 aku participate... hee hee... But don't worry, I'll definitely share my winnings with the Management Dept who have supported me PLUS, I'm definitely gonna give my little family a "makan" treat too...


I've uploaded my SLIDE for this event... Oh plus a video of the song that I sang on stage... Siap dengan back-up singers lagi... Ahahahaha!! It was a fun and joyous event I might say... =)



Note: Please click on the pause button in my music player if you wanna listen to the video.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

A Cake & An Ice Cream Treat...


Yesterday was a boring afternoon in the office... I was actually not in the mood... My mind at work was pretty much out of focus... I kept saying to myself, "Bile la nak balek? Bile la belah dari sini? Isssh! Boring betol la ari ni... Ngantok pon ade..."

Yes!! I was drop dead sleepy and BORED at the same time... Had sushi and a potato puff for lunch... Sushi was delicious... Potato puffs on the other hand was way too oily... I'm never gonna buy the puff from the "Makcik" at the canteen stall ever again... bleurgh...

Then, while I was nearly about to slam my head on the office desk, Alex (my G.M) and his elder sister (my Lady Boss) came popping their heads in the office with a box of Birthday Cake and another box that was filled with Swensen's Ice Creams... slurpppp!!

Me (wondering and suddenly starting to recall something about today), "Oh crap!! It's Mrs Lim Boomsday... Darn... Totally forgot about it..."

So everyone in the office sang her a birthday song... Each one was given an ice cream treat... hee hee... Niceeeeeee...

We ended up celebrating her 46th birthday in the Conference Room with the rest of the Management Staffs...

SLIDE uploaded...

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Tag replies for the SPEAKERS CORNER...

Zaharah: Yup!! Klaka kan... Memang cute...!!

Lalaa: Rambot diye macam mangkok sebab Nenek Idah diye potong rambot diye style mangkok... Ahahahaha!! Kau tahu ah... Mak aku ni hair-stylist... lol...

Shopaholic Mama: Ahahahaha!! I know... I felt that way too!! lol...

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Bila Suami Hantar Puisi Halus Kepada Isteri Untuk Kahwin Lagi...


I've uploaded some pictures taken last night on our trip to GIANT Tampines Hypermarket with my mom and youngest bro, Adam... Mom was the one who wanted to go there and did some grocery shopping of her own... So yup, we brought her there and while waiting for her, both hubby and I, we took some camera shots...

Anyway, I was laughing like crazy when I read this e-mail sent to me by one of my aunt... Thanks Mak Ucu!! I love it!! Ni mesti pasal suami yang tue kutok tak sedar diri nak step kawen lagi ni... lol...

It's written in Malay, so korang hayati la puisi ini ye...

Puisi Sang Suami...

Isteriku,
Jika engkau bumi, akulah matahari...
Aku akan menyinari mu kerana engkau mengharapkan sinaran dari ku...
Ingatlah bahtera yang kita kayuh, begitu penuh riak gelombang...
Aku pasti akan tetap menyinari bumi, hingga kadang-kadang bumi terasa akan silauan ku...
Lantas aku ingat satu hal bahawa Tuhan mencipta bukan hanya bumi, malah ada planet lain yang juga mengharapkan sinaranku.

Lalu!!!
Relakanlah aku menyinari planet lain, menyampaikan faedah adanya aku,
kerana sudah takdir Illahi sinaranku diperlukan diplanet lain.


Balasan Puisi Sang Isteri...

Suamiku,
Andai kau memang mentari,
Sang surya yang memberi cahaya...
Aku merelakan engkau berikan sinaranmu kepada segala planet yang telah TUHAN ciptakan kerana mereka juga seperti aku perlukan cahayamu dan akupun juga tidak akan merasa kekurangan dengan sinaran mu...

AKAN TETAPIIIIIIII!!!
Bila kau hanya sejengkal lilin yang berkekuatan 5 watt sahaja...
Jangan lah bermimpi untuk menyinari planet lain!
Kerana bilik tidur kita yang kecil pun belum sanggup kau terangi...
Lihatlah diri mu pada cermin kaca di sudut kamar kita,
Di tengah remang-remang pancaran cahaya mu yang telah aku mengerti.
Cuba lihat siapa dirimu...
MATAHARI atau lilin?

Atau jangan-jangan cuma mancis sahaja!!!!!?
Please lah....!!!
Jangan la nak berangan!!

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

What Do You Think Of This Poem?

Eventually, this poem had caught my eyes... Very interesting... Just something that I would like to share... Well according to the writer, it's just a satirical poem that jabs at the vexations of our society... Maybe some of you out there might find it offensive... Well, I don't know... As for me, I'm pretty OK with it... What about you people? What do you think?

My Minah Wife


I was relaxing one corner
When I spot a hot chick from far
I smiled and passed her my number
My love story starts with Minah

Minah's a girl I barely knew
But one bad day I strayed a shot
Within the weeks her tummy grew
So off we went to tie the knot

Wanted a wedding by the block
But Minah's mum said, "So low class?"
"I want grand music and a jock"
"And make sure the venue's five stars!"

Hotel banquets and high dowry
Just so that others will envy
My credit card runs on empty
But hell, at least Minah's happy

When minahs be somebody's wife
They keep no watch on their damn rice
Barely a year of blissful life
My dearest mate grew twice her size

One day she said "House feels empty!"
"Did you not promise a good life?"
"I want a big Plasma TV"
So owe to Courts husband and wife

Then Minah grew fat and lazy
She starts a craving for a car
One day she marched up right to me
"Sayang, I want a Toyota!"

But I tell her I've cash no more
My bank account's right to the floor
She said, "Sayang, we can borrow"
"Installment plans, cash down zero!"

Minah is now proud and happy
With lots to show off to her friends
But they know not the reality
We're hanging on to our wits' ends

My minah wife now makes me low
With nothing more left to adore
A husband joy turns to sorrow
Fret not, I've got space for three more :)

Monday, March 9, 2009

Nice Weekend & Happy Birthday 3rd Bro In-Law, Yus...


Our mini little family went on a little shopping trip to Mustafa Centre last Friday... Since we both, parents aren't working on weekends, so yup, why not do a little shopping spree till wee morning and sacrifice some of our sleeping time... Anyway, it's been a while since we last been there...


The next day, hubby was on his National Reservist... I stayed the whole entire day at the crib... Did the laundry, watched TV, played with the babies and my pet cat, house cleaning bla bla bla... Thought of bringing the babies out for a walk but nah, I ended up spending the whole entire day at home...

Sunday, was the day that we were invited to hubby's close friend's (Deen and Md Nor) wedding... Well you see, Deen and Md Nor (both brothers) were our ex-school mates during our secondary school years... We met up with the rest of hubby's old time friends (Fadzli, Anuar, Chiko and there's another guy whom I can't quite recall his name)... Sharol (another one of our ex-secondary school mates) came with his wife, Juli and son, Iman... All of us sat at the same table... I tell you, the wedding venue, was full of people... I might say the place was pretty crampy and to top it all off, it was a freaking HOT SUNDAY AFTERNOON... Gosh!! My babies were getting all sweaty and agitated... Asyura was crying her lungs out... Asil on the other hand kept on asking to be carried... We had to juggle the babies plus our food and everything... Took some pictures with the newly weds... Teased and laughed... I sat and began to ponder... All of us, we were friends during our school days and now, each one of us went on our separate ways to pursue our own path, fell in love and got married... Memories of the good old school days... Yes, they are still fresh in my mind...

We left the venue at about 4 plus in the late afternoon... Went to the Giant Tampines Hypermarket... Did some grocery shopping before taking a little stroll at Pasir Ris Park...

Had a late supper again at home and this time, I did the cooking... I made boiled broccolis, scramble eggs in milk sauce plus breaded chicken breast... Yummy!! Actually kan, I should cut down on this late supper thingy coz it's really not helping me to lose weight... Must try to control myself with all this deliciously tasty food... hee hee...


OK... Before I end my entry for today... I have a little birthday poem for my 3rd bro in-law who's celebrating his 36th birthday today with his dearest wife, Muz... Hee hee... So romantic gitu kan? Kan? Kan? I'm actually not use to much talking with all 4 of my brother in-law... Tak tahu la kenape but from the first time I met them, I just don't talk that much to them... I only make it a habit to talk whenever it's necessary... Funny thing is I'm pretty much jovial and friendly whenever I hang around with their wives... Well, except for one of them though, coz sorry to say this but, I find her a bit of a brag, show-off and someone who likes to demoralise others... pfft... This type of person is seriously NOT MY CUP OF TEA and normally, I don't give a hoot to this type of people... I would just stay away from them...

So to my 3rd bro in-law, Yuz: Selamat Menyambot Hari Lahir Yang Ke 36... A year older and a year wiser... Yes? Semoge ape yang anda doa akan dimakbolkan oleh Allah swt. Amin... Both Rizal and I know what is it that both you and your wife truly need in your life right now... We know...

Life’s Journey

It only happens once each year,
Book the train and pack your gear.
Your destination seems unknown,
As you sit there, all alone.

Something internal, in a rush,
Just like the toilet, we usually flush.
Constantly staring at the clock,
Are you waiting for your flock?

Savour the moment, don’t wait for the end,
Nobody knows, if you may extend.
Journey divided into equal parts,
Today is another, we’ll add to the charts.

Your train has left, from the town of birth,
Hopefully located, on planet earth.
The next stop, might seem the same,
It shall reveal, what you became.


Happy Birthday Bro!! Insya'allah, we will pray for you too... It's just a matter of time... Have faith and never give up hope OK... ;)

OK... SLIDE uploaded...

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Tag replies for SPEAKERS CORNER...

Huzainie: (www.venture-eragroup.com/sg/home.html)
Wah!! Smangat "entreprenuer" la adek aku ni... OK roger!! I'll check it out... Thanks for the info ya... =)

Lalaa: About the chalet... Yup that's what the mom told me... 14.03.09 until 16.03.09... And becoz of that, they told me to apply leave sebab takde orang nak jage anak2 aku kalau dorang gi chalet nanti... pfft...

Nad: Hi Nad!! Kite tak nak enable blogger sebab kite prefer pakai tag board... hee hee... Sebab tu la... =)

Friday, March 6, 2009

Hilariously Funny...

This post was written by one of my fellow bloggers... I pretty much laughed my lungs out (coz it reminds me of my hubby and his habit while driving the car) when I read her recent blog entry. It was hilarious!! So this was what she wrote...

Driving Style (by Kak Junita @ Monster Mom)

I can’t understand why some men like to drive with their hand/arm dangling out the window. Is it so cool to drive that way? You could just see their faces as you drive pass them. How does it feel? Good? Maybe these people have BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) syndrome. It’s a rare condition which compels its sufferers to want to amputate, or paralyze, their own healthy limbs. I think that will be the answer to my question.

I tried it once and it only last two seconds. Sorry to say, it is plain silly. Besides, it’s dangerous. My brain starts throwing all sorts of “What if” questions...

But then again it is not a crime to do that. So, what the heck...

I really wish that I could bring along a ruler/cane/rotan so as to whip those hands as I drive past them. That would be cheeky!!!!

Driving Style...
One hand on steering wheel, one hand out of window. - Sydney
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One hand on steering wheel, one hand on horn - Japan
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One hand on steering wheel, one hand on newspaper, foot solidly on Accelerator... - Boston
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Both hands on steering wheel, eyes shut, both feet on brake, quivering in terror - New York
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Both hands in air, gesturing, both feet on accelerator, head turned to talk to someone in back seat - Italy
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One hand on horn,
One hand on holding gear,
One ear listening to loud music,
One ear on cell phone,
One foot on accelerator,
One foot on clutch,
Nothing on break,
Eyes on females in next car,"THIS IS INDIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA"

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Gosh!! How I Miss Blogging...


Salam people!!


Blogging at last!! Woo hoo!! I miss my blog... I miss telling stories... I miss my fellow bloggers... I miss reading their blog entries and leaving them with my comments... I miss everything!! Arggggggh!! Lame betol aku tak masok blog... Been so uptight with work and family... So very freaking UPTIGHT!!

So what's happening in my life lately? Hmmm... Let me see...

Asil was down with fever for a week recently but he is in the pink of health right now... Asyura on the other hand is doing very well with her baby talks... The hubby had been transferred into another place in his department and, alhamdulillah, it is a good sign... As for me? I've been busy helping and organising this Staff Annual Party 2009 cum 20th Anniversary for the company that I'm working with... Asking for sponsorships that sort of thing plus the usual daily stuffs bla, bla, bla...

I've uploaded some pictures taken during our recent family outing... Nak elaborate banyak2 pon macam long-winded gitu kan... So, korang tengok je la gamba yang aku da upload... :)

Last but not least...

Tag replies for the SPEAKERS CORNER:

(Note: Sorry for the late reply y'all... A thousand apologies... Kite busy gilerrrr...)

Nad: Thanks for the Birthday greeting, Sis... Babies slalu nye comel giler... hee hee... Awak pon cute jugak... hee hee...

Amsis: Thanks for the Birthday greeting, Sis... Yup! Yup! Comel macam "baby" you jugak kan? Kan? Kan? "Cake-poking Masterpiece" tu is actually 1 of a kind... If you're interested, insya'allah my little boy will make 1 for you... Tapi nak kena buat advance booking... hee hee... ;)

Kak Ipah: Hee hee... Memang cute giler... Enjoy betol mase tu... :) Bile hang nak mai sini? Mai la... Cek tunggu sampai hang datang noh...

Mdm Azizah: I'll be blowing my 28th Birthday candles on July 31st 2009... A year older and a year wiser... Insya'allah... How about you, my dearest teacher? When is yours coming?

Syafiq: Mrepek je budak Syafiq ni... Saper cakap aku tak nak blog ni, huh? I've been so freaking busy ler... Banyak keje kat ofis... Balek ruma jage babies lagi... By the time nak blog, kakak da penat giler... hee hee... Nanti pegi chalet tak this coming 14.03.09? Mamang and Cik Suraya buat kat usual spot...