Manusia Pemakan Bangkai..

Seorang Sheikh ditanya, "Ada seorang yang rajin solat malam & melakukan banyak amal ketaatan, tapi sayangnya ia banyak GHIBAH (menggunjing orang).."

Sheikh menjawab, "Mungkin Allah menjadikannya beramal untuk diberikan pahalanya kepada orang lain.."

"Dan janganlah kalian menggunjing satu dengan yang lain. Apakah salah seorang dari kalian senang apabila dia memakan daging saudaranya yang telah mati, maka tentunya kalian membencinya.." - QS 49:12

When you are aware people have been spying & backbiting about you (& your family) & it pisses you off. But the moment you realise that it's Allah's way of giving you (& your family) a shortcut ticket to Jannah by means of free "pahala", you put up a long smile & say الحمد لله. 😌

If It's Important, You'll Find A Way.. If Not, You'll Find Excuses..

An article which I know most of us can relate to..

I do feel her adik angkat's pain.. Rasa mcm kene "bastard" & being taken advantage of. Why do I say this? Sebab adik among older siblings paling kecik, so-called tak berani nak bersuara, diam je, telan je.. Paling kecik so senang kene "pijak-pijak".. 

There's a saying, "A mother can take care of 10 sons, but sometimes 10 sons can not take care of 1 mother.."

It's not about how one treats the elderly superficially in front of everyone's existence, it's what happens behind the scene that matters.

At the end of the day, it is Allah who sees your true intention & what is conceal within that heart of yours..

If it's important & takes up a part of our responsibility, we will try our best to find a way. But if it doesn't, we always find excuses.

Life always have a choice. It's whether we wanna do it, or we don't..

Facts of life.

I Trust Actions, I Don't Trust Words..

🌹..الحمد لله على كل حال

Most people will talk the talk but only a few have the courage & strength to walk the talk.

In the end, it's not about the talk but the walk that matters.

Those with good intentions make promises while those with good character keep them.

Always observe people by their actions not their words..

You Will Definitely Fall The Moment You Are In My Shoes..

You never really understand someone until you perceive things from their point of view; until you climb in their skin & walk around in it..

So try walking in their shoes..

Walk the life they're living, the path they've travelled, their sorrow, doubts & their pain..

If you reach as far as they did, only then will you be able to realise how strong they really are compared to yourself.

Till then, you aren't qualified to judge nor have an opinion about their lives.

When You Give Your Kids Too Much Face..

This is what's gonna happen if one keeps spoonfeeding & sponsoring their child too much.

Ada sampai nak tunang, nikah & sanding pon mak bapak maseh sponsor.

When you get old & there's nothing left in you to give anymore, all that you're left with is yourself.

Marriage Life Isn't Always Perfect..

Underneath those eyes & smile, lies a story that only both of them & a few others understand..

16 years & counting.. [March 18th 2006 ~ 2022]

Just A Bunch Of Parasites On My Mind..

Stuck in a generation full of greedy, selfish, lying, cheating, irresponsible, materialisitic, fake-ism.

Those who reject the responsibility of thought & reason can only exist as parasites on the minds of others.

Not arguing. Just stating facts.

Expect The Bullshit, But Never Accept It..

Menilai orang baik bukan dari ilmu agamanya kerana banyak orang ahli agama yang terus menerus menyebut nama Tuhan, tapi dengan sesama manusia berdusta, menipu & ghibah.

Respect is earned.. Loyalty is returned..

Yang penting selama 40 tahun hidup sebagai seorang kakak & anak paling tua, aku tidak pernah mengambil kesempatan terhadap adik-adik aku.

Where I came from, I wasn't brought up that way & biarlah ia kekal begitu sampai akhir hayat ku. Ameen.

The eldest in the family (be it sons or daughters) should set a good example for their siblings in every situation.

But sadly nowadays, not many are able to display this.

Facts of life..

Difference Between The Black & The White Sheep..

Most of the time, the Black Sheep of the family is the only one who has the guts to speak the truth.

One thing I learned about being the Black Sheep is that the White Sheep are great manipulative liars & they aren't as white as they seem to be..

The World Doesn't Revolve Around You..

People who only care about themselves, their own troubles, their everyday issues & see things only in their own perspective.

If it's important, they'll find a way. If not, they'll keep giving excuses.