Fitnah itu..

Love this..

Reminds me of manusia prangai & bermulot puaka yg pernah & akan tetap mengata mcm2 tentang aku sekeluarga..

Mcm2 cerita yg diketengahkan pasal aku sekeluarga sampai ade satu ketika, kite merasekan diri kite ini dipulaukan & diasingkan..

Biar berkawan dgn org yg bersuara lantang, suke berkata luros, mulot mereka tk lepas dari caci maki & pakaian mereka tk brape elok dipandang mata.. 

Daripada berkawan dgn org yg suara je lemah lembot, pandai bertutor mengambil hati org lain (pandai bodek), jarang memaki hamun & berpakaian elok tutop aurat kalahkan ustaz/ustazah tetapi hakikat nye, hati mereka BUSOK SEPERTI BANGKAI BINATANG!!

Some People Were Just Raised Differently..

There're some things that I just can't tolerate..

A person who never admit to their mistakes.. A person who isn't true to their words.. A person who lies.. A person who creates "cover-up stories & excuses" for the sake of their own enjoyment & life pleasures..

I know & am always able to sense it when something isn't quite right.. I can't force people to respect me; the way I live my life & how I expect it to be..

I'm a very nice person really, but not stupid to be fooled..

And I can choose to ignore & stay away from people who don't deserve having my respect, no matter how far or how near the age gap is..

#thoughtoftheday

#janganhidopdidalamkepurapuraan

#truthwillalwaysprevail

Well, HELLO..

Regularly checking on someone you don't like, rarely speak to & don't hang out with, makes you SICK in the head..

I'm flattered upon knowing my blog is always so very entertaining (to you) & that you come by continuously to STALK it (as always)..

My life must be way better & interesting for you to constantly "blog-visits" for any new reads & updates.. ;)

A little advise though, WORRY MORE ABOUT WHAT YOU DID TOWARDS OTHERS FIRST, before worrying about what & WHY others treated you in such a way..

Before pin-pointing faults & that finger of yours towards others, be sure to do a HUGE recap on your FLAWS & MAKE SURE that there's nothing you have said & done towards those around you.. Or else, it may just backfire right in your face one day..

Al-Fatehah Buat Arwah Pak Long Ku..

I was on a short vacation with my family when I received the sad news of Pak Long’s passing.. It was on our very last day in Melaka.. Just like the others who had passed on before him, it took me a while to get the news digested in my mind..

I stared at the mirror in the shower of my hotel room, telling myself,”Pak Long dah tak de.. Remember the promise you kept a few years ago..”

I broke down the moment I spoke to dad on the phone.. Tried my best not to shed my tears but I did while we’re all in the car on our way back to Singapore..

I made a promise to him on the day Arwah Wak Mi passed away a few years back.. Pak Long saw how devastated I was knowing that my favourite maternal uncle had passed on to another life.. He hugged me & said,”Dah dah jangan nanges2.. Janji dengan Pak Long.. Nanti kalau Pak Long dah tak de, Pak Long tak nak Lily nanges2 macam ni OK? Doakan Pak Long.. Janji dengan Pak Long..”

So on the day of Arwah Pak Long’s burial, I didn’t shed a single tear.. I tried so hard holding it back until a few days later, upon reading all the posts written by my brother & cousins, I couldn’t hold it any longer.. I cried..

Surely we belong to Allah & to Him shall we return.. Al-Fatehah buat Allahyarham Haji Khamis Bin Ahmad yang telah kembali ke Rahmatullah pada 6 hari bulan November 2017.. Semoga Allah jaohkan ia daripada seksa kubor & api neraka & masokkan ia ke dalam syurga dikalangan mereka yang beriman.. Ameen..

Jasa mu terhadap kami sekeluarga tetap akanku kenang selama nya.. He’ve seen me at my worst, was there for us when dad wasn’t around.. He knew what kind of girl I had become amidst all the family issues I was facing, how I turned out to be & yet he chose to stay silent.. Never did he looked down upon me..

Semoga Pak Long tenang di sana.. Ameen..

  

Alhamdulillah, Tak Rugi Orang Yang Sabar..

1st day of Eid spent entirely at home entertaining guests. Hub's 2nd brother & his huge family.. Our nieces & nephews are all grown up!! GOSH!! Rasa sunggoh tua diri ini.. Hahahahah!!

Felt so terkilan coz I didn't take a shot with my 1st sister-inlaw & her kids who came over as well coz we're all so engrossed in our convos & catching up with each other's lives..

On a brighter note, I'm glad that the ties I had with my 1st & 2nd sister-inlaw are better now.. Tak rugi org yg sabar.. Suatu hari, Allah akan tunjokkan jugak perkara yg sebenar & someone's true colour.. Alhamdulillah.. AND on another note, the hub kept teasing me, saying that one day, I'll be a grandma & that his nephew's child will have to call me Nenek Ly when the time comes.. "Nek Ly!! Ooooooo Nek Ly!!" HAHAHAHAHAH!! Kurang asam.. HAHAHAHAHAH!!

And on a sickening note, I don't get it why some even bother coming over to my crib (best part bole call mil aku in advance tanya tuan punya ruma da keluar ruma beraya ke blom) & even though I hate seeing the sight of their hypocrite shit-ass faces but yet I still put away that hatred in me & spoke to them as if nothing happened & yet they even dare showed up with a shit-ass attitude kinda face.. Patot aku yg mengamok coz of the shit-ass things they've said & done to & about us.. Kalau aku tk pandang muke laki aku, mertua aku yg dudok serumah dgn aku & kalau aku tk pegang kata2 Rasulullah saw bahawa tetamu itu pembawa rahmat, mmg siang2 aku da buat satu scene..

Prangai mintak kene kahak.. Kecik2 tk nk mampos, da tua ganyot buat darah org up..

Dan pade pendapat aku, kalau hati tk ikhlas tk payah nk tebalkan muke mintak maaf & mintak halalkan makan minom step berlakon tunjok prangai baik dtg ruma org.. Satu step depan prangai baik blakang mengate, lagi satu plak muke stuck-up habes.. Muke babi pon kalah.. A pair of hypocrites..

Be Wise..

Always listen to both sides of the story before you judge.. The 1st storyteller you'll find has modified the story for their own benefit & the version you heard probably was the least accurate. If you don't know the situation, then you don't have the right to draw an opinion & jump to conclusions.. Never judge without knowing the whole story. You may think you understand, but you don't.. Be wise.. If you have judged before hearing both, then SHAME ON YOU.. #stfu #justsaying

Thank You For The Visit, Adeline & Hubby..

They came over just a day before my surgery.. We had fun talking & laughing!! Glad they loved the food that I cooked for them.. Truly am bless to be given such a good friend who never fails to keep in touch even when our lives have changed..

True friends regardless of race, religion & nationality..

Missing Weifeng here.. My other 'cabo'.. xoxo