I seldom blog nowadays unless if I have the mood to.. My latest craze is Twitter.. Micro-blogging made easy..
It's been nearly 3 months, now that we've moved back into our crib @ Taman Jurong.. It feels good to be back in our home.. Just us, living our lives, minding our own business.. (Senyap siket.. Tak de pompuan kepo dok heboh buat crite, jage tepi kain kluarge aku lagi.. Pakai tudong, muke step decent, step tak banyak bual.. Padehal, mulot kalahkan mulot tempayan.. Eeeeee.. Amit-amit.. And the best thing of all is, there's no more COPYCAT observing me from head to toe!) ^_^
People said that our crib is quite far & secluded.. Very "ulu" they said.. But I don't consider our crib "ulu", there're feeder buses & a walk from the MRT Station to our crib takes about 10 - 12 mins..
Kids are adapting very well in their new school, alhamdulillah.. New friends & teachers.. Although once in a while, they would eventually pop a random conversation to me saying how they miss their old school very much..
Maybe, just maybe, I'll bring the kids over for a visit to their previous school one of these days..
Just when we get everything settle down, news has it that there are still "people" who can't seem to stop bothering about my family life..
For peace sake, these people should really mind their own business & take care of their own problems, instead of being a nosy parker & bugging their nose into other people's lives..
Instead of going around asking others about us, why can't they just pick the phone up, dial our number & ask us personally about our well-being?
Some of them even have the cheek telling others to teach us ways on how to bring up our kids! Like seriously, they have kids of their own! They should be taking care of their kids & all those things that their kids have been doing infront & even behind their backs!
And I don't understand why, some don't even have the courtesy to even call up & inform us that they're coming over to our crib for a visit?
Halo?! FYI, that's OUR CRIB, we OWN that crib.. At LEAST before coming over for a visit (obviously we all know the purpose of their visit), they should have the courtesy to inform us in advance.. So where's the courtesy? Where's the thought? Whose crib is it anyway? Ours or theirs? Whereby message had already been passed down to them.. Should they feel like coming over for a visit, they should give us a call & inform us in advance coz it's our CRIB! IT'S OUR CRIB!
I'm very sure they don't even like it IF we were to come over to their crib without letting them know in advance.. I remembered clearly how they keep reminding us about the same thing, "Kalau nak datang rumah, call, bilang siang-siang.. Jangan main datang aje.." (I mean, halo?! Standard procedure lah! Whoever goes to whoever's crib, they should call the owner of the house earlier to inform about their visit. Budak kecik pon tahu siak ni standard procedure..)
So, it's OK for them not to call in advance & then came knocking on our door on the day that we happened not to be @ home? (Kan menyusahkan diri sendiri? Sendiri datang rumah orang tak bilang siang-siang.. Owner rumah pon tak de..)
So what makes them so special that we have to give them a call in advance whenever we feel like dropping by to their crib for a visit & they don't have to whenever they feel like dropping by to our crib?
Try be in our shoes! Having people putting their nose into your family business & coming over for a visit without even informing in advance.. THINK!
Sorry, but I don't think these type of people learned well enough on the things that they've been preaching to others.. Coz if they did, they won't be doing such a thing.. Make sense?
So as experienced adults who always love giving their opinion & advice to others, where are their manners & thoughts?
Tired of all these people & hearing every single "yaya papaya" crap that comes out from their mouths.. I really wish they would stay as far away as possible from our lives, every single one of them.. Coz frankly, nobody can tolerate nosy-parkers..
And if respect is what they seek, they've got to earn it coz I never show respect to a person who don't deserve it.. Sorry, if I'm being a bitch coz that's just me.. I'm just being me.. I'm not like some "FAKERS"..
Why should I give my respect to people who don't even respect me & the decisions that my family make? And who look down upon our "so-called" incapabilities & talk behind our backs?
If they think they have their rights over "certain things", so do we.. I wonder where have their brains gone to..
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