Nosy-Parkers.. When Will They Stop?!

I seldom blog nowadays unless if I have the mood to.. My latest craze is Twitter.. Micro-blogging made easy..

It's been nearly 3 months, now that we've moved back into our crib @ Taman Jurong.. It feels good to be back in our home.. Just us, living our lives, minding our own business.. (Senyap siket.. Tak de pompuan kepo dok heboh buat crite, jage tepi kain kluarge aku lagi.. Pakai tudong, muke step decent, step tak banyak bual.. Padehal, mulot kalahkan mulot tempayan.. Eeeeee.. Amit-amit.. And the best thing of all is, there's no more COPYCAT observing me from head to toe!) ^_^

People said that our crib is quite far & secluded.. Very "ulu" they said.. But I don't consider our crib "ulu", there're feeder buses & a walk from the MRT Station to our crib takes about 10 - 12 mins..

Kids are adapting very well in their new school, alhamdulillah.. New friends & teachers.. Although once in a while, they would eventually pop a random conversation to me saying how they miss their old school very much..

Maybe, just maybe, I'll bring the kids over for a visit to their previous school one of these days..

Just when we get everything settle down, news has it that there are still "people" who can't seem to stop bothering about my family life..

For peace sake, these people should really mind their own business & take care of their own problems, instead of being a nosy parker & bugging their nose into other people's lives..

Instead of going around asking others about us, why can't they just pick the phone up, dial our number & ask us personally about our well-being?

Some of them even have the cheek telling others to teach us ways on how to bring up our kids! Like seriously, they have kids of their own! They should be taking care of their kids & all those things that their kids have been doing infront & even behind their backs!

And I don't understand why, some don't even have the courtesy to even call up & inform us that they're coming over to our crib for a visit?

Halo?! FYI, that's OUR CRIB, we OWN that crib.. At LEAST before coming over for a visit (obviously we all know the purpose of their visit), they should have the courtesy to inform us in advance.. So where's the courtesy? Where's the thought? Whose crib is it anyway? Ours or theirs? Whereby message had already been passed down to them.. Should they feel like coming over for a visit, they should give us a call & inform us in advance coz it's our CRIB! IT'S OUR CRIB!

I'm very sure they don't even like it IF we were to come over to their crib without letting them know in advance.. I remembered clearly how they keep reminding us about the same thing, "Kalau nak datang rumah, call, bilang siang-siang.. Jangan main datang aje.." (I mean, halo?! Standard procedure lah! Whoever goes to whoever's crib, they should call the owner of the house earlier to inform about their visit. Budak kecik pon tahu siak ni standard procedure..)

So, it's OK for them not to call in advance & then came knocking on our door on the day that we happened not to be @ home? (Kan menyusahkan diri sendiri? Sendiri datang rumah orang tak bilang siang-siang.. Owner rumah pon tak de..)

So what makes them so special that we have to give them a call in advance whenever we feel like dropping by to their crib for a visit & they don't have to whenever they feel like dropping by to our crib?

Try be in our shoes! Having people putting their nose into your family business & coming over for a visit without even informing in advance.. THINK!

Sorry, but I don't think these type of people learned well enough on the things that they've been preaching to others.. Coz if they did, they won't be doing such a thing.. Make sense?

So as experienced adults who always love giving their opinion & advice to others, where are their manners & thoughts?

Tired of all these people & hearing every single "yaya papaya" crap that comes out from their mouths.. I really wish they would stay as far away as possible from our lives, every single one of them.. Coz frankly, nobody can tolerate nosy-parkers..

And if respect is what they seek, they've got to earn it coz I never show respect to a person who don't deserve it.. Sorry, if I'm being a bitch coz that's just me.. I'm just being me.. I'm not like some "FAKERS"..

Why should I give my respect to people who don't even respect me & the decisions that my family make? And who look down upon our "so-called" incapabilities & talk behind our backs?

If they think they have their rights over "certain things", so do we.. I wonder where have their brains gone to..

Thru Good & Bad Times.. Always Together.. =]

29 Weeks & Counting..

76 days to go till we see you, Little One.. Insya'allah..

Can't wait for that wonderful moment of being able to give birth to our 3rd child..

I thank Allah for giving me this chance, yet once again..

Alhamdulillah.. =]

Nothing can ever replace the moment of a mother, battling her life, in labor.. Nothing can ever replace the moment of giving birth to your own child..

Nothing.. Not even wealth or all those worldly pleasures that some of us are busy chasing for..

Thoughts..

"Too many people spend money they haven't earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like.." - Will Smith

Thought Of The Day..

"Rumors are carried by haters, spread by fools, & accepted by morons.." =]

The Last Day of 2011...

Orang lain pegi holiday, catch the Countdown of 2012 & see the fireworks. We don't have the time for all that.. Busy with packing & moving back into our crib..

[Oh! And to YOU! Let me clarify this to that "hati busok" of yours.. It's us moving back into our OLD CRIB in Taman Jurong & NOT us getting ourselves A NEW CRIB, like the stinking rumors that you had been creating to the whole world.. GET YOUR BLOODY BRAINLESS FACTS RIGHT BEFORE USING THAT FARKING MOUTH OF YOURS TO SPREAD RUMORS ABOUT ME OR MY FAMILY.. Sendiri tak betol, nak dok sedap mengate pasal aku.. Prangai jenis tak pernah diajar & ditegor! JENIS MAKCIK2 AHLI TINGKAP & KAKAK2 KEPO YANG TAK DE KEJE NAK SEBOK JAGE TEPI KAIN ORANG! Mane kau nak letak muke kau? Da mengate blakang orang, buat crite plak tu.. Tak malu.. Kalau aku jadi kau, aku sorot muke aku jaoh2..]

I had a wonderful dream.. Guess Allah knows that I've got no time to see the fireworks, so He brought the fireworks over to me in my dream. It was a nice one. =]

Always remember that wherever you go, how hard life can be.. Allah is always there for you.. Always taking care of you.. Watching over you.. <3

2012.. A new beginning for what is yet to come.. A little new us inside of me.. We see u soon our Lil Tumtum.. Just a few more months to go.. =]

Last day of 2011.. Till the arrival of 2012.. Thank you Allah, for giving me a chance to breathe & be with my loved ones yet again without fail.

Alhamdulillah, syukur.. =]

Do As Much As You Want With What Is Left..

You know there's always that particular sickening human who's always there to compete with you?

The ones who only God knows why the hell they have that so much enviness towards you for having a happy life?

As in, bile orang nak tunang, dorang pon sebok2 nak tunang.. Bile orang nak nikah, dorang pon sebok2 nak nikah.. Bile orang lain beli rumah besar, dorang pon sebok2 nak beli rumah besar.. Bile orang lain got a good job with a good pay, dorang pon sebok2 nak capai ke matlamat itu..

Pendek kate, ape yang orang lain ade, dorang pon sebok2 nak jugak ade.. Tapi tahap jenis yang tak nak kalah.. Jenis "lebih up" dari orang lain.. (Asal tak ikot skali gi beli sluar/baju dlm colour/brand ape yg org lain pakai eh?)

And if possible, these type of people wish to see you fall without even getting a chance to climb back up again..

I'm telling you, they will be the most happiest sickening jackasses in the whole entire universe when they find out that you fail miserably in life..

That other feeling they have in them is, Hatred..

I know some of us, we just gotta deal & face with these type of sickening people in our lives.. And the saddest thing would be, is that some of these people, are part of your family members; Parents, cousins, relatives or even in-laws..

Have you ever wonder? Why are they even like that in the first place? I mean, what they get by doing all this? Pure "satisfaction" for seeing other people's life being brought to a downfall?

And you know, these type of people, they can put on a "muke tak bersalah" mask on their faces & then start a conversation to the person WHO they really WISH for that downfall to happen.. Like wtf? Cut me some slack here & go shovel that hypocritical face else where! Sheesh.. We're not born a retard thinking you can fake that bloody face to us..

I.. just.. can't.. show myself & PRETEND.. that I'm happily OK.. talking to these type of people with a smile on my face.. Whoa.. I can't..

After all the shit they did & every single freaking ass things they've been telling to people about my family with all the "Indian spices" that they added into their stories..

Yet again, I still asked myself this, "WHAT THE BLOODY HELL THEY GET BY DOING WHAT THEY DID?" NAK TNGK SAUDARE SESAME SENDIRI JATO..? NAK MATIKAN SAUDARE SESAME SENDIRI..? Whereby THEY know that they've been in THAT kinda position before, having others putting hatred & enviness towards them & wanting to see them fall..

Sigh.. I don't know.. Too blinded to even recall those moments, I guess? Maybe too proud with what they have right now..

Nak matikan orang sampai bile? Soon, all these taking advantage of others, back-biting, bitch-mouthing & hoping to watch other people's downfall will end.. And yes, I'm referring to a bunch of YOU..

It's all gonna be over soon.. So take advantage, back-bite & bitch-mouth as MUCH as you want with what's left.. Coz I know, that's what YOU people are doing right now..

I'm cool.. But just remember, what goes around, will always comes around.. =]